***Must Dance**** (didn't know that was such the "straight man" repellant)Oh, come on guys, even a slow dance?!!
I'm an active person. Loves softball; dive for abalone; SCUBA. Mendocino coast is my favorite spot!!!! Can snow ski, just not that into it (man, didn't know THAT was a communication blocker either!). Likes to water ski, but not too many chances to improve at that. I work out 5 days a week, but love to eat garbage food. French fries with blue cheese dipping sauce-mmmm. I love life and I like to have fun, though not at anyone's expense. I have a goofy side and sometimes google cartoon theme songs because I can't remember the correct lyrics. I love country music and classic rock. I want to go dancing and be kissed on the dance floor; I want to be kissed during a country concert. I want someone who will take the time to write me a note; pick me a flower; hold my hand; support my passions; take me out occassionally; make me feel special. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money, just time. It's the small things that matter-not the price tag. I'm very low maintenance, no drama, but still a girl. LOVE "chick-flicks" like Die Hard; Rambo; God Father; Over Board; Tommy Boy; The Mummy. UFC fan too! I don't eat sushi (back home we call that bait)nor do I drink wine (kind of hard to chug out of those fancy glasses). I want a LTR but I don't know if I want to marry again. However, if you can make me shoot liquid out my nose I just may reconsider ;) My son is getting to that age where it's embarrassing to hang out with your mom, so now I'm starting to focus on me again so when that time comes, I'm already in the groove.
I selected "divorced" as I am, for 12 years! What's the right amount of time to become "single" again?!

For the first date,what to wear? I'd probably want casual, which would mean my best fitting jeans and high heel boots. Then we'd walk, and I'd look good but my feet would kill me. My mind would wander and I'd think, "hmm, I wonder if he rubs feet? maybe a back rub? I wonder what he's like in...." and be deep in thought and seem like a bubble-head because I asked you to repeat the question....;)
Something casual so we could talk; meet for coffee; share french fries; walk around; just hang out and see if it leads to a second date. But that's only if you're man enough to handle a confident, independent, sassy-jock kind of girl. So many dances, so few partners.