What you see is what you get - the picture is recent and I do look like my picture, well, except, maybe, the hair style - it changes occasionally. Just like everybody else in this wonderful world of on-line bliss seekers, I love to laugh, am close with my family, have many good friends, and have accomplished a few things by now, not the least of which is raising my son, who is now a mature responsible adult (yes, I did start early!!!). I am secure and independent, and, maybe, a bit too independent for my own good (to answer those, who wonder, why I am still unattached). I do know what I want, though, and I am determined to find that missing piece - a kindred spirit and my better half - to laugh with, to dance with, to cry with, and to travel to the end of love, wherever that may take us...

I am looking for a:
A real man, who is over the disasters of the past (we all have had them), has a few things to say for himself (I am a good listener!), has a curious mind, as do i, and who is looking for the joie de vivre, and is not afraid of finding it!

A perfect first date - the one that leads to a second one, and to a third one, and to many more, and brings an end to all those first dates... Walk and talk, an effortless conversation, a few smiles, a few laughs. Time and place unimportant.