I have a wide social network of friends from all walks of life. I love meeting people for drinks and food. I enjoy live performance of any kind but particularly drama. My music taste is broad ranging from Fela to Ian Brown.

I am told that what makes me unique is my laughter and humour.I'll try almost anything once and I don't mind being out of my comfort zone. Life is for living,increasing knowledege, experiencing both joy and pain, discovering new experiences. I'm game.......

Also If you can't be bothered to string a few sentences together via email please don't bother. If I want your phone number I'll ask!!

Please ensure that you are you are fully dressed In any photos you post on this site or send to me!

Ideal match? Well, to start with, someone who's read this far without running screaming for the hills would be a good start. Someone who shares some of my interests and can bring some new ones of his own to the mix. Someone who knows where to put his apostrophes. Someone who's willing to be on the receiving end of some caustic, and who can give as good as he gets. Honesty and fidelity matter to me; I can't be doing with random one-night stands or manipulative mind-games. On top of that, it's all about the elusive chemistry thing; about someone who'll be my best friend as well as my lover. And if you're willing to take my word for it that those nutty bits in Haagen Dazs Pralines & Cream really aren't very nice and are best left to me, then that would be marvellous. Also, men who attend church, or who are in a midlife crisis need not respond. I'm a communicator, and thrive on great conversation. A brain is far sexier to me than your fabulous ability to spend hours in front of the TV.

I'm not partial to egos. I mean, it's healthy to have a good self-esteem, and wonderful to have self-confidence, but a massive ego is unattractive.

I find ignorance and stupidity extremely frustrating, and have difficulty tolerating it. I know it takes all kinds to make up our world, it's just that I choose not to surround myself with humans who are happy to sit on the dole, and are greatly interested in ripping off the tax man.

A first date for me is simply about meeting someone in a relaxed environment to see what kind of chemistry, if any, develops.