I have worked in hospital administration for 19 years. I have not worked for the last 16 months. I have taken time off to spend time that I have missed out on with my daughter (let's call it an early retirement). My daughter is 10 years old and lives with me full-time. Her father lives in NC and she visits him about 6 times per year. Her brother lives in NC, is 13 and visits me about 6 times per year. I also have an older son that lives on his own here in town. I am enjoying my time off and getting to spend time with my daughter and my son when he comes to visit as well. I also enjoy the time for ME that I never really had working 70 hours a week. I may work again some day and I may not. It just depends on what path I go down from here. Right now, I am comfortable and content. My focus is making my daughter successful and happy.

What am I looking for? I want it all. I want a best friend, someone that I can talk to about anything,someone to have fun with, a lover, and someone that I can glance across the room at and we will both know what we are thinking about.

I don't want to go hunting or camping or fishing. If u want to do that, that's fine, but don't expect me to tag alone. U go do the "man weekend" get away and I will stay home and do "girly" things or read a book. My idea of camping is at the Marriott. I do the love the outdoors, I love the beach, the lake, boating...I just don't want to live out there or kill any animals!

I love all kinds of music especially live music. I like to get out and have a good time and I like to hang out at home and cook a nice meal. I enjoy having a few drinks.

I am a single mom which means I have my 10 year old daughter with me most of the time. I have a sitter but I also have the responsibility of being a full-time Mom. Don't worry she's not looking for a Daddy, she has one and we aren't looking for anyone to support us, we do quite well on our own. I just know, that children sometimes scare guys off, and it's better u know upfront that my child is a very big part of my life and very important and rarely comes second.

Anything else you want to know, you will have to ask????

A couple of drinks at a quiet place to see if we click.