I've been out of the dating seen for a while now. Not much of a drinker and most of my friends are married with kids now so going to clubs and bars are outta the picture, not to mention work takes up a lot of my time. I live by myself (actually I live with my dog Edgar too but he doesn't pay me rent) and own my own home and car so I'm not a typical bum. I'm a very laid back and open minded person. I think of myself as being intelligent, thoughtful, dependable, and above all very loyal to the people who have earned my trust. For fun I enjoy hanging out with friends, watching movies, playing tennis, bowling, and shopping(Lowes, Home Depot, Bestbuy, etc...). I also LOVE coffee, thank god I have a Starbucks close work.

For a first date I would of course let the girl choose what she would like to do. However, if she wanted me to decide I would very much enjoy doing a fun activity like tennis, bowling, or miniature golf. Having dinner or grabbing a coffee would be nice too.