lol this is becoming funny to me, if u r married we dont need to talk, I am not going to do ur wifes job on the side lol . I am 41/divorced/BBW looking for a BHM. I like cooking out, fires inside and out, water, find it relaxing, love spending time with my kids and dogs, festivals, fish frys, darts, pool, hottubs..anything fun, very open and honest...I like all music but I prefer country music or classic rock.....I have 1 adult child and 1 almost 15, both live with me. I work alot of hours and usually go out about once a week or just staying in and watching a movie with someone is fine too...I am a BBW so if u dont like big girls no need to talk to me :)

first date would be lunch or maybe dinner and a few drinks,talk for awhile and see what happens.. something simple and open...no pressure...if we hit it off we do and if we dont we can be friends because you cant have too many : )