Timing is everything. We are all here hopefully for the same reasons, to find that special person. Not the perfect person, because we all know that there is no such thing as a perfect person. But I am looking for the person that is perfect for me. I really believe and hope that this person is out here and exists.

But why is it so difficult to find this person? I think that the simple answer is timing. If the timing is not just right, it doesn't work. We both have to be at the same precise point looking for the same precise thing at just the precise moment for it to work out. I know that there are a lot of great women in this area. I know that there are a lot of great women looking for the same things that I am looking for and that is why i am here on this site trying to find this elusive woman.

So this is how I think it should work. As the man, I know it is my job, my responsibility to search for you. When I find someone that I like, I will "wink" at you and maybe send you an email. Then, it is your job to either wink back or send a message to let me know if you might be interested or not. After that, I will respond back to you, we can start talking and see where things go. But if you don't let me know, then the game falls apart. In order for this to work, both sides have to try. Neither of us have anything to lose but time by talking and trying to find out if we have any chemistry between us.

Now if you are the type of woman that wants to be more on the aggresive side and do the searching, that is just fine. I will look at your profile and give you the same respect that I am looking for. So lets have some fun and talk and see what can happen.

Well, thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I'll start with the basics about myself.

I am the proud father of a 11 year old son who I adore, and am a family man through and through. I am an honest, sincere, fun and loving person, who is a hopeless (jaded)
romantic. I love to treat a woman with respect and get it in return. I enjoy opening doors for a woman not because she expects it, but because I want to and she likes it.

I try to be considerate towards others and expect the same. I would like to find an exceptional woman that I could become friends with first. Someone to share life's adventures, as well as just being together. Someone fun, intelligent, a little athletic, cute, honest and loving. Someone who likes receiving affection, and who likes giving it. A woman who is beautiful inside and out, with a kind heart. Eyes I can get lost in. A smile that fills me with joy. A heart that will be true. I'm not even close to being perfect, and I have made mistakes in the past, but I have learned never to take someone I love for granted. Sure I want to fall in love -- but with the right person, for the right reasons.