I've met a couple guys off here and most of them seem like all they want is to sleep around. I mean really, is there something misleading about my profile to make them think I'm that kind of person? If so - let me make this clear: you won't find that here. Another interesting thought: some guys feel if a girl doesn't sleep with them by the second or third date by the latest - she's not into them. Really guys? If that's all you're after, you should at least be honest with these girls. This way, you'll end up with someone as immature as you and not waste your time with women who deserve better than you. Having sex on the first, second, or third date is most likely why you're not in those relationships now. This is what I've learned so far: if a guy wants sex on a first date, he thinks the girl's a tramp and is just interested in her for a couple nights until he finds a regular girlfriend. If the girl doesn't care about the guy, she'll hook up. If she really likes the guy, she won't have sex with him. If he likes her, he'll stick around. If he just wanted sex, he'll dump her. Some women would rather wait to be intimate if we know we're in a long-term, committed relationship, instead of just being flavor of the month. Until then I'm left wondering: what DID happen to finding a companion, a best friend to grow old with, a soul mate...?

~I'm pretty much solid on finding someone that'll come to church with me on Sundays.

~I am fascinated (some say obsessed lol) with the date December 21, 2012 - NOTHING at all to do with the movie.

~Perhaps the one thing that impresses me even more than 2012 is the "Twilight" series, it completely consumed my life and to this day I'm still completely obsessed with it (Edward Cullen in specific ^__^). If anyone decides to read it - you've been warned.

~I am a people-person. I love all sorts of people and simply being AROUND people makes me happy. Therefore I also don't divert to being alone - but if it ever comes down to it, I would rather be alone than with people I can't stand.

~For some reason I come off as mean-looking. I think it's how low set my eyebrows are - giving me what appears to be a mean stare - but I SWEAR I'm NOT mean!!! Or sometimes I come off as antisocial because while in groups, I prefer to listen - unless I'm one on one with someone then I will equally contribute my fair share of talking ^_^.

~I appreciate intelligent conversation and love when I can learn something new from someone.

~I am vivacious, generous, and light-hearted.

~I was born on October 30, 1986.

~I'm Polish (and part gypsy). I can speak, read, and write - I used to teach, too.

~My pet peeves: being late, wasting food, wasting time, wasting things in general, waiting, people who hide things, people who talk big but fail to deliver, dishonest people, bad drivers, not being responded to (whether through email, IM, or in person), obnoxiously huge tits, people who chew with their mouths open, American cars, people who spend their entire lives on their cell - ESPECIALLY while hanging out with me, bad kids, bad dogs, bad parents/dog owners, giving me "drop it" the moment a conversation veers into an unwanted direction, people who overdo sarcasm, people who claim being vegan is "natural", cowards, the new "cool" (aka getting drunk, watching sports, getting high, and sleeping around).

~I'm the oldest of four kids - I have a younger brother, another brother, and a sister - all in that order.

~I'm quite blunt - I say what I mean and mean what I say. No need to read too much into things with me - I'm not complicated.

~I paid for College myself.

~One of my favorite treats is raw egg yolk with a spoon of sugar. DELICIOUS! I dare you to try it - I promise you will love it.

~I used to consider myself on the Conservative/Republican side (yes, I voted for Bush and WE WON!!). However I also disagree with some conservative 'principles', hence agreeing with liberal principles - like the death penalty. I don't fully agree with EITHER party, therefore, I consider myself to be on the Moderate/Independent side.

I'm Roman Catholic, born and raised.I go to church with family every Sunday at 8AM, which is far too early in my opinion (haha). God has done so much for me in my life and I can only hope to repay him with being a kind and loving person in return. I hope to have a family and continue to pursue my faith with them someday. :)

~I LOVE stories - all and ANY kinds of stories - love to listen and love to tell!!

~I was an extra for the movie "Witless Protection" with Larry The Cable Guy and Jenny McCarthy. There's a 4th of July parade scene and I was a 'beauty queen' sitting on a red car with a pink dress - I dont think I made the cut...which is cool, the experience was plenty :)

~I never learned how to ski, rollerblade, do a cartwheel, or swim. There's a lot of things I didn't get the opportunity to learn to do that many normal kids did - but I am always up for trying something new!!

~I love adventures. Again - just going or doing something I don't usually do. Like even as simple as going to the zoo with some friends.

~I have a problem with drunks - don't ask me why - maybe because being raised with Polish people made me see how idiotic they get once they pull out that bottle of vodka.Or maybe it's just because of bad experiences with exes. Or maybe it's just because I prefer to have people in my company that can DEAL with their problems - without using alcohol (or cigarettes or any other addiction) as a means of forgetting their problems. Now that should not be confused with having a problem with drinking altogether - I have no problem with drinking socially - so long as it's (as with all things) in moderation. This goes for addictions too - I don't see what's so difficult about solving a problem head on instead of divulging in destructive behavior.

~To go along with this, I dated a guy who said we "needed time apart", then immediately started flirting with another girl the following day. Of course I said no when he tried coming back, but his mother made excuses for him and said, "Well he just wanted validation from someone..." and I told her, "Actions speak louder than words - if he truly cared about me, the only validation he'd need is from me."

First and foremost, as I said previously I'm pretty much solid on finding someone that'll come to church with me on Sundays - I can't stress enough how important that is to me.

~Someone that seeks stability and low drama - much like myself. Someone that improves the quality of life, not burdens it.

~Someone that has no fear of commitment - nothing sexier than dedicating my life to one man and knowing his deepest, darkest secrets; and him dedicating his and knowing mine

-A friend once said "I refuse to let chivalry, love, and romance die like others so carelessly do. Love is strong yet delicate, it can be broken. To truly love is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this." Too often I've been in a committed relationship where one person tries harder than the other. True love requires effort on BOTH parts. I need a guy willing to work as hard for a relationship with me as I am with him.

~I want a boy I can run to crying, with makeup streaming down my face and the first thing he says is, "Whose ass am I kicking, babe?"

~I like respectful guys who do romantic things for their women not caring what their friends think.

~Smoking is a turnoff. So is EXCESSIVE swearing.

~I have a thing for guys with sideburns, spiky hair (especially if they have those emo side bangs - SO HAWT ^_^ - think Jared Leto from 30 Seconds to Mars in their From Yesterday music vid), and a LITTLE chin stubble, as well as guys in collared shirts and pea coats....love the classy look.

~Liars are bad. If I'm lied to once, you're outta the ballpark. Same with cheating obviously.

~Actions speak louder than words - words are but a pile of dead leaves scattering in the wind.

~I like built guys mean to everyone but sweet to me (not necessarily MEAN to everyone, but if they're nice to EVERYBODY - especially girls - then what's in it for me? I'll get the same treatment whether I become his girlfriend or just his friend, right? I want him to treat me special dammit!

~I also like guys who are good with kids

~I hate guys who keep secrets - it's not cheating but it's a good head-start - I won't deal with it.

~If a guy dates a girl while harboring feelings for someone else (whether a past ex or some girl from high school) he should be dating HER and not this other girl - that's baggage and his responsibility to unpack before moving on.

~I have a hard time trusting guys - my trust must be earned.

AND there must be a picture. People see what I look like and I should get that same respect. Some call this shallow, but there's no use trying to force an attraction that never was. I've always been of the belief that there are no ugly people in the world - only lazy ones. And attraction is important, but not THE most important. But really - come on now. You dont SEE personality from across a crowded room...