For now, I decided to come back on POF seeking a FREIND. Nothing deep, until we get to know one another for a while. I'm not here for the "flash-fire" romance that burns out fast. You girls know as well as I do, SEX is the easy part -- I don't want only that.... I want MORE! Relationships .... it appears is the hard part or why else are WE ALL STILL SINGLE??? So I am trying it different now. I ONLY wnat friendship. If and when that friendship turns into something more, then ...... we will see, hope for a stronger foundation.

This is the most open and truthful profile you will read. I am so tired of multiple dates with multiple people. Ultimately, I want to my collection of memories with ONE PERSON. What ever happened to a "girlfriend and boyfriend". Almost sounds like a term from the past huh??? :)

I am a good man and want to meet the RIGHT person who is open, ready, healed (mentally and psychology), able to have a GREAT relationship if the connection is right.

For now, lets just have fun. BBQ, motorcycle ride, Forest Park, hiking, wineries? Anything outdoors and I'm happy. I like an activity in place of the same old bar or restaurant date. It's aways fun as long as no one gets an eye poked out. LOL.

My pics are all about a year old. In person, both men and women (non-internet) always guess me at 36ish years old. I think it's my ENERGY, attitude, and inner-self that is most attractive and people mistake it for what’s outside ... the shell????

I dress for the most important occasion but most comfortable in jeans. Often told I am very manly as I love to build / rehab with my hands, yet my day job is in a business suit. You find me smiling most of the day and I am reminded of it constantly by those who appreciate my happy spirit.

THINGS I DO: Snow/water ski; boat; lake Ozark condo; fly-private pilot; motorcycles; biking/cycling; travel and the beach; Europe; South America; parks; picnics; BBQ’s; photography; wineries; rehab houses; bon fires; camp fires; fireplace with glass of wine; float trips; outdoor jazz concerts anything outdoors enjoying what Mother Nature gave us. I have volunteered a lot traveling to several countries to help construct, homes; schools; dental clinics etc.

Been dating since my divorce and will continue to do so until I find the ONE. I've had 3 long term relationships since D-day. Never settle for less than LOVE. If I could find someone who has these qualities, then we're off to a great start. Non-selfish; not materialistic; fun; up beat; respectful of the other; and somewhat attractive on the outside, but more attractive on the INSIDE.

The most important thing I desire in my life is a loving woman! About 4 years ago I realized that without someone special to share it with, "achievement" means so little. What’s the saying? "Behind every good man is an even better woman". OK, so where is this woman???? :) My partner in crime, but you must love children. Your kids, adopted kids or even our kids (I'm game). I really do enjoy the love, energy, and fresh outlook kids bring to the world.

WHAT I LOVE ABOUT A GREAT RELATIONSHIP: Both very mentally, physically, and sexually attracted to each other. I think the kiss is a barometer of the heart. We kiss like we make love -- with passion. I stop looking at other girls -- truth is, even when you’re not around -- then I know it’s real. CONVERSATION IS KEY. When we are able to spend time together, talking about each of our days; dreams; and goals. Holding hands and taking a walk. Laying on a blanket and looking at the night sky. Yes, I can be a romantic .... with the right person. d*mn --- I miss it. I still BELIEVE it will happen. *** This kind of relationship doesn’t just happen on its own, WE .... BOTH make it happen. We make our life as we want it. What do you want?

RELIABILITY: When we can count on each others “word” or promises. When we both want to give to the other more than we want to receive. Rare, but awesome when we work at having this in a relationship. ** I want to have a reason to be in bed earlier. I want the reason to be YOU.

I want to be someone’s FRIEND first as long as it takes to build a better foundation this time, though "relationship" is what I would like to have. Why do so many woman fear that. Roles have reversed haven't they! I am ready for it when it happens. I want the real deal.

*** Please don’t contact me until you are 100% OVER YOUR PREVIOUS BOYFRIEND. I am sick of meeting this type of girl. When they find they like me it causes them mental conflict. PLEASE, be healed BEFORE you contact me.

If anything I said here makes sence, please email me. :)

PS: If you don’t have a pic, and you think there's a connection, please write, but I will be asking for a pic when you do. It’s only fair right.

OK, I have to say this -- I applaud those woman that post recent pics and those that put "A few extra pounds". THANK YOU for honesty! I'm not trying to be mean, so ladies, please consider posting "A Few Extra Pounds" if that really applies and not AVERAGE or ATHLETIC if they don't really fit the bill. I am full of energy and love doing physical activities that require endurance. I'm looking for a gal that can keep up. Just trying to know what I am getting into BEFORE we meet. I am a fairly athletic person, with a fairly average / slender /cut build. I DONT work out, I am NOT a big muscle head guy, but I am VERY ENERGETIC and love an active life. If your overweight, then please post it and find that person that is right for you.

Does not matter what we do. It matters who you are with.