| | I'm a 41 year old single male I have a muscular build.I understand love because I choose not to understand it. Love just happens. Nobody thinks about how to love, or when and where to love. Love transcends over time and any amount of distance, whether it's across the street or across the world. You can't control love. Nobody is rational about love. Rational thought hinders love. Love is a sudden rising in the heart. Love is an unavoidable, unobstructable longing for. There is no logic in this. It is beyond logic. in fact, its sort of crazy. So I try not to be rational about love. It is like trying to give reasons for the river to flow, for the breeze to be cool and gentle, for the moon to glow, for the sky to be expansive, for the ocean to be vast and deep, or for the flower to be fragrant and beautiful. Rationalization kills the beauty and charm of these things. They are to be enjoyed, experienced, loved and felt. If you rationalize about them, you will miss the beauty and charm and the feelings they evoke. When love comes my way, I will just enjoy it. I'll sit by her and look deeply into her eyes and behold the vastness of her soul. Kiss her sweet lips and feel the rising up of the waves of passion. Caress her body and be amazed at the creation of such magnificence. Whisper softly in her ear the words, I love you, just because you are you |
