I must admit that this whole thing has me bamboozled. I think that it would be easier to try to understand quantum physics. Ladies.... it would be so much easier to deal with things for what they are. Why is it that you say that you're looking for a good guy, when in truth, you want a good LOOKING guy. Quit using the word "soulmate", insert "bedmate". lol Most of those guys are the ones that helped you get to the point where you now say you want a "good" guy. You really just wish that the last good looking guy had been less of a jerk. Maybe we all need to just get over ourselves. Me included.

Anyway, I am a 46 year old semi-retired musician (singer/songwriter/guitarist), frustrated poet, bad cook, handy with tools, love baseball, I like the things that most guys like. I am nice to old people, kids and dogs. I believe in God, not religious, prefer to have a relationship with the big guy upstairs, believing that he is trying to help me, and if i would only get out of his way, he could do more. Did the religion thing, and it left a real bad taste in my mouth.

Anyway, I am not looking for a wife, not looking for a mother, just a friend. Where it goes after that, I have no friggin' idea. Life is funny, it can throw some curves. So, if you could use a friend, and you can hold up your end of a conversation, have the ability to laugh at the absolute absurdity of life, drop me a line. If not, good luck in your quest for a "good" guy.

This completely depends on your definition of "date", and of course who I am with. Starbucks is so tired. Which reminds me.... The reason the call it a latte, is because it costs a latte, and takes a latte time to make.