To begin, I'd like to say I'm really goofy and borderline old fashioned. I love music, art and culture. Every and anything from Tupac to Iron Maiden…I love it all. I love debating, talking, and playing devil's advocate. I have only a few friends, but I know them deeply and value them beyond my ability to really describe. Non-verbal communication has been interesting me a lot lately... I love napping but I also love running off on some pointless adventure. I really like being out....I'm beginning every sentence with "I..."lol


I suppose in a mate, as you may have guessed, mutual respect and commitment are of utmost importance. While I wouldn't want to date an exact replica of myself...for obvious reasons, I would want to date someone with interests pertaining to mine. Also, a pretty massive proponent in discriminating a quality mate from a non-quality one would be that they respect and not feel intimidated by intelligent, funny and empowered men. While that may seem obvious...one would be shocked at what I've encountered. I feel relationships should change over time, I actually think it's an integral, if not an inevitable factor, but I think this change should be more of a growth...and not a malignant growth. I am a person that understands that women aren't plastic figurines and do indeed has bodily functions and imperfectly placed hair. I expect a lot out of a relationship because I've never had one that I haven't given everything I had. I want to grow and change with someone. I want see each other as a confidant, a best friend, and as a lover.

Hmm, on a first date I suppose I would like to go anywhere and get the typical date questions out of the way...Once we've covered all of that, go on a walk and get a little more in depth. After that, if you weren't a) an absolute moron, b) a creep, or c) completely incompatible with me...we could discuss a second date, that is, if I too fit your requirements.