I can't really tell you what I'm looking for because I really don't know myself. I do know what don't need and that is usually what i end up with. So if your superficial, high maintenance, clingy, spent time in a mental institution, medicated for a mental condition, or at one time had a job dancing around a pole for a living then you are probably not for me. Ok.. Scratch that last one... I do like to have fun without all the drama...