lol jk im not that self centered but i am fun!


about me: easy going guy, single daddy of a 5yr old boy (i have custody)movie buff, great cook, funny, kind, and willing to work through the tough times. I grew up in west texas in a small town called big spring. People are definetely different out here. not as polite. I for example will return every single email i get whether i am interested or not simply because if someone takes the time to write you i think you should give them the courtesy of treating them like a human and responding. and besides you never know what you may learn from someone by just corresponding with them. im a simple guy when it comes to making me happy i just want to know you think about me from time to time and flash a smile my way and you will have my heart

about my match: i want someone that wants to be in a relationship not just someone who goes through the motions. i dont like rudeness, narcisism or bi polar people. i dont really have a type. all i ask is that you are kind, fun, reliable, and humble. .. oh and you put up with my quirks.
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update: ok so its nov 29 and .. ok two years ago i signed up to be a bone marrow doner... well to make a long story short they called me and told me they have someone who needs my help. so im currently in the testing stages and in the next 30 days i will (god willing) donate for this woman she is dying of leukemia and our dna matches up so well i can possibly help her. i dont know her but if i can help someone who needs it so be it. so as i would love to get to meet someone and start dating im probably not going to jump into anything until after the holidays and after i complete my testing and donating. wish me luck! but im still willing to talk and get to know each other maybe its best if i do it that way anyway i always end up falling too fast.
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i just heard from the marrow registery and i was chosen as the final doner for the patient that needs it. this is so awesome of a feeling guys. to know that you are going to be able to help someone live. im on cloud 9 right now. at the end of january is when i go in for the procedure. today was a good day 12/22/2009

usually on a first date i like to do the usual, dinner, maybe a fun activity like bowling or playing pool, maybe visit the boardwalk somthing like that alot of face time to get to know each other.

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ladies let me give you a couple of hints and i dont mean to sound like a jerk....
if you dont want only sex... dont put up overly sexy photos of yourself stop showing clevage off like its your only good feature.

also if you have a child. putting (they come first) will not deter guys who dont care... and the ones that do care dont have to be told.

also shallow begets shallow.