I'm a full time student at DePauw university attempting a bio-chem degree and hopefully getting into med school at the end of these 4 years. I'm a member of a fraternity you can inquire about once I know you a bit better. Right now I'm not really looking for anything too serious although I'm always open to the prospect. Honestly, right now there's just not time in my life to spend as much time as I'd like on dating. College doesn't seem to be about that at all. It's all hook ups and one night stands that sometimes end up in relationships. I'm pretty busy the majority of the time which is one pretty big reason I'm still single. The other is a nasty habit of mine of always being attracted to women who aren't single. You always want what you can't have, right?

Anyway, how to describe myself? I can be random quite often and almost always have energy to spare. I LOVE meeting new people although a friend might describe me as off and on shy on occasion depending on the person. It's really weird. I mean I love physical intimacy (like cuddling for those of you who were just then getting a bad impression of me) although sometimes I find it hard to break that touch barrier with women I'm really attracted to. Also, flirtation is not my forte. I'm more of the hopeless romantic type although I will admit, that is starting to get old even for me. I've dated several women in my life and have had two serious romances although they were a few years back. I like to think I've of moderate intelligence with a good balance between creativity and knowledge. I'd call myself a jack of all trades. I love watching movies, putting on parties, having company over, and meeting new people whenever possible.

Now I guess I should describe what I want out of you. I'm looking for someone I feel naturally at ease around when speaking, but at the same time someone who has that unique flair about them that makes me want to know where those feelings are coming from. I don't like women who have to dress like a slut in order to get attention. Just not my thing. Not to say I don't like a girl who knows how to turn me on, but I'd prefer not to be deluded by that sort of thing. I love intelligent and social women who are more outgoing than myself. People I date are either easy to talk to or I only date them once. I'm also looking for someone who doesn't expect me to spend the entirety of my time on them. I'd be more than happy to spend it all with them, but my academics come first right now. So essentially, don't get too serious on me too quick. Other than that, there's a whole gambit to run, but I'd love to at least be friends.

And that's about all folks. There's a bonus out there for all you artistic types cause I love em, but I can't wait to meet you all!

First date, hmm. Well I've found that it's never a god idea to make a first date too formal at least in my own experience. Maybe it's cause I make things too weird cause I love to gush all that romance out on a girl when I get a shot or something like that, but either way it just doesn't feel as sound and real as a more laid back date. So first date experience I'd probably do something fun like go karts or riding laundry baskets down hills like I used to do when I was a kid (still do it from time to time). I really cherish the fun loving free spirits out there although you run the same risk as I do of becoming "just friends" It's one of those dates where I like to just get to know you while getting a feel for what our more casual conversations will be like back and forth. If I can't talk to you easily or you don't respond well, I'll know and then we can either just be friends or I'll cut it off there. I'd probably draw the date towards a close with a small bite to eat at somewhere local, nothing fancy to keep things comfortable. If I like where things are going, I might offer a second date and I'd definitely be touchy feely by then. I can't help myself there so if you're not into that, you're probably not my type. Not to say I get gross with it, but I like to brush hands or rub backs and what not. Also a fan of hand holding. I keep my nails trimmed for a reason!

Also on a side note, I have a habit of letting dates go on for a long time and I'm also not opposed (and appreciate) a girl who can let me know when it's time for her to head home. Otherwise if I'm having fun, you may very well see a lot more of me than you're ready for (no pun intended.)