I put "other relationship" because I am looking to meet new friends, as well as interested in finding a long term relationship. I prefer to be friends first and see if the chemistry is there or not. No, I am NOT interested in casual sex nor married men. (Casual sex is so easy to find, nobody needs the internet for that!) I fyou are married or living with someone or have someone chasing you for back child support, then I'm probably not the one for you.

I am new to the area, though I lived here 22 years ago, then sailed off to the Caribbean and back. Long trip! Had a blast and loved it.

I want to travel and wander around in a motorhome in North America while I work on my next book. Just my dream, but I am flexible and capable of changing my mind. I am looking for an unattached male who is interested in some adventurous traveling and has their own income to afford this modest lifestyle. Nope, I am not interested in supporting you.

It helps if you are intelligent and creative. If you're the type that often says you're bored, then keep looking. I'm never bored, I've got loads of things I love to do. I am constantly teaching myself new things and moving forward with life in spite of the challenges and occasional hardships thrown my way.


I am laid back, fun, curious, open minded, creative, happy, looking to make things positive. I don't have time for bickering and fussing over small stuff. I'm far too honest for my own good and truly hate it when folks take advantage of my open nature. If you're super picky over nonsense, then I'm not the one for you, I'm too laid back for sweating the small stuff.

Although I was born in the USA, I spent the last 22 years in the Caribbean, so you could say I feel like a fish out of water here. I'm not materialistic, though I'm not opposed to a few nice things. I'm a dreamer and a doer. I once bought a hurricane ravaged sailboat, a stack of how-to books and then refitted the boat to new condition and had a blast living aboard and sailing around. Though my sailing days are over, my dreams to do other interesting things, is never idle.

I'm probably going to move into an old used motorhome soon and eventually start traveling either alone or with friends or some of both. If I found a fun mate, then that sure would be nice.

My latest book is on Amazon;
"Hurricanes and Hangovers (and other tall tales and loose lies from the coconut telegraph) by Dear Miss Mermaid

If you want to check out my wacky sense of humor, then read about the book or better yet, buy it and laugh out loud as you read it! For the quick link, just go to DearMissMermaid.com

I also have an eclectic website and two popular blogs, one that has been on the internet for over a decade. See DearMissMermaid.com for links.

I am truly amazed at the one sentence replies I get. How am I supposed to gleam anything about you from one cryptic sentence? Write and tell me all about yourself, please, if you are interested in a fun creative lady.

I'm a diverse woman with many talents. I'm 50 with long dark hair and well rounded. I prefer that you be age 35-85, intelligent, fun, creative, and can use your best manners effortlessly.

For a first date, I would say meet and chat at a restaurant over coffee or tea, so either of us can escape gracefully if need be! Ha ha... I know there are some great people in the world, but there are also some strange folks out there too. I am trying to eliminate alcohol, so I rarely drink anymore. The open air beach bars in the Caribbean were loads of fun, but these dark depressing cave like places for bars around here, just don't trip my trigger. However, if one of my musician friends is playing there, I will probably go.

I am interested in meeting new friends and dream about finding a partner to share an adventurous life with. I'm a busy person who likes to be positive and have fun.