hmmm the lil red letters above this box says to talk about my hobbies, goals, aspirations and what makes me unique, well here goes.
I'm 49, tho no one ever believe me, by either the way I act or look, and I'm me, theres only one of me, I like me very much! I'm happy with my lot in life, got a great job two fantastic kids, gonna be a grandpa soon and even tho I think it should be illegal for someone to be called grampa before he's at least 50,I cant wait. I'm a bit of an adrenaline junky, boring just doesnt cut it! I like be spontaneous, and to do things, go out to eat, go to differant places, wineries, the mall, the zoo, union station, old town, heck, I dont care, lets get in the car and go look at the fall colors. or drive out to a dark secluded area and lay in a field and count shooting stars. I'll point out planets and constellations to you, if you wanna stay at home thats good too. I love to people watch, love animals, art, music, anything, I just love life, and cant get enough of it.
I'm a romantic, opening doors, lil gifts, chocolate, flowers, cards, what ever, its all part of it, and if it puts a smile on your face, mission accomplished. I'm fun, and the harder you laugh, the crazier I'll get, I want to know how your day went, "sit down, and tell me about it baby, can I peel you a grape?" lol! I love to cook, and I'm very good at it, I hate closed minded, shallow people, liars and fakes, I have no time for games drama or anything that is gonna bring pain.
Heres the mushy part of me, I believe in fairy tale love stories and true love. I know that theres a snow white looking for her prince out there, and I know that every Forrest has his Jenny. I know your not going to be perfect, so please except my faults as well. I wont expect you to want to do everything that I want to do, and hope you'll be understanding when I dont want to watch a movie on lifetime with you. (I hate to cry in front of women)
I know who I am, what I am, what I want to be and what I want out of life and love, and I know I'm not gonna stop looking till I find it. I know it takes time to get to know someone, that communication is bigger than anything, that the more you give, the more you get. and that little "just because's" go a looong way! I dont lie, cheat, steal, or play. I love direct confiedent honest people

I dont do multiplicity

ok, that me, and whats n my head, (did I mention I have a tendency to talk?)
as far as hobbies, I love to fish, I play the bass guitar, and, (my favorite) jump out of planes, I plan on getting my instructor for all phases of skydiving, maybe some day I'll take you on a tandem jump!
I like to karreokee, camp, go to concerts, love football and hockey games but dont get to see them as much as I would like,
and last but not least, I'm for real. I'm generous, honest, open, and loyal. kind and sincere. if your my friend, I got your back for life till you prove otherwise, then its your loss. and even tho you didnt ask for it heres a lil bit of advice, I know that we all have our preconcieved idea of our perfect match, but let me tell you something, I sold cars for 5 yrs, if I had a nickel for every time someone came in saying "I'm looking for a red convertable gt mustang, but fell in love with, and drove off into the sunset in a blue focus, I could buy you all the roses and chocolate in the world, take a chance reply to messages. talk to people in here. if it gets interesting, then get to know that someone better, we're all here looking for the same thing, if you hit it off, great, mission accomplished. if not, maybe at least you will have made a new friend, and you'll never know where that might take you! but if you dont even reply... you might be missing out on the biggest thrill ride of your life.
good luck!

Hmmm. I guess that would depend on when,and who it was with, a winery, bowling, going out to dinner, a picnic, a concert, or even skydiving! the most important thing to me is to be able to have the chance to get to know each other, to be able to talk and find out about each other to see how compatable we are. talkd and talk and talk, be able to find out your likes, and dislikes, interest, hobbies, beliefs. if you chew with your mouth open! lol I dont know if there is such a thing as a "perfect" date, more like the perfect person to go out on a date with!
that person would be:
happy
open minded
be able to carry on a conversation longer than 10 minutes with out talking about their ex
happy
diverse
witty
happy
know what they want out of life
not think that they are "owed" (ya came into it with nothing...)
be self sufficient
happy
energetic
intelligent
happy
spontaneous
carefree
happy
Did I mention I like happy people? if you're an "eeyore" STAY AWAY!!