I don't have many hobbies, but I am a "Jill"-of-of-all-trades. I do love to travel, although I don't do it as often as I would like. I love a good joke. Make me laugh (tastefully), and we're off to a good start. I consider myself to be a city girl so I'm not into bugs, or camping...anything involving too many insects. I'm into all art forms--dance, painting, music, architecture, etc.

I definitely am considered to be different by most people that know me. I'm not the person I am physically perceived to be by my physical appearances, therefore I do not pass judgment based on outward appearances. Im not quick tempered and cant deal with someone who is. I also love honesty. If you can be honest with me, no matter how bad, we can USUALLY get through anything. I am very smart and love a good conversation. I want to be schooled as well as be able to school you on a thing or two! :) I like to plan things but I'm definitely NOT a control freak. I like a man's man...someone who can take control of a situation but one who enjoys when I handle things sometimes too. I love a good suit, but jeans and/or sweats and sneakers are cool too. I love my heels, but sneakers have my heart, and yes, a good sweatsuit can potentially be my best friend. I am very romantic and I love to give surprises, so if kisses and hugs and surprises are not on your list of things you like, then I am not the one for you. I ride motorcycles although I sold my last bike and I am waiting to get the chopper of my dreams.

I have two daughters 10 &7...but no drama...at all! I don't like drama and I don't surround myself with it. I love to have fun and so do they. They are as smart and witty as me...I call them "The Evil Geniuses". I'm okay with not having anymore, but if my husband wants one, I would be more than happy to give him one. If you too have children, that's cool too! Kids always get 2 thumbs up in my book.

A.F.I...attraction, friendship, intimacy...its a formula I read about in Hill Harper's book "The Conversation"(check it out). It seems to be the way I would like to go about meeting the person that could POSSIBLY be the one for me...and vice-versa. We'll see how it goes. (fingers crossed)

P.S...my self-control profile is COMPLETELY INACCURATE.

I like what dating used to be. I have an old soul (so I've been told). It doesn't have to be dinner and a movie, but something nice. Surprise me! It helps me learn about you. Ideally, a good date could be tickets to a show (not necessarily a concert...too noisy) and dinner...or lunch, or just somewhere where we don't have to shout at each other. It doesn't always have to be a night thing either. A stroll downtown, or a walk in the park works well. i want to be able to chat and laugh with you. Like I said, surprise me. :)