Looking for a man who knows who he is and what he wants, if that happens to be me, then we are off to a fantastic start. Divorced,longer than I was married, so I am surely over it ! One daughter, soon to leave the nest for college and the next chapter is yet to be written. I don't like words like baggage or drama. If you are really living your life, you are sure to have a certain amount of both. I try not to judge people or assume we all begin with the same tools intellectually or emotionally. I have only one non-negotiable requirement for a romantic relationship and that is...ROMANCE. It is one of the few relationships that has a primary function attached to it, so that connection must be present. The rest of the check list, job, height, weight, age, blah, blah, blah is secondary. Give me the sparks ! And that, of course, makes this whole thing much tougher. If any of this resonates with you, drop me a note, send me a wink, blow me a kiss or however this works. Thanks for reading.

A short supervised daytime meeting at a well attended public place with security guards, cameras, police dogs...you know, romantic. : )

Second choice - Let's meet for a quick glass of wine and wait for the magic, to see if we actually want to have our real first date. If there are no sparks, I think we'll both know, and no explanations will be required in either direction. Deal ?