Summing yourself up in a few paragraphs is just not an effective method for meeting and connecting with the opposite sex.

Chemistry is most of what develops attraction. Not looks and certainly not an occupation. So, I'm not going to give you the chance to treat me like a garment in a store window. If you share my interests and are really looking for a great guy, send me a message. I will insist on a date sooner than later. I don't think written communication does justice to the complexity of a personality. You can't shop for people online.

But, because I think something of value should be place in a profile...

I am impressed by women who are in control of their emotions, continue to add value to themselves and the people around them, and who are truly beautiful inside and out.

Live music, cultural events, and social mixers are a huge part of my life in business and personal. If you can be fun, interesting, carry on a conversation without saying "like" a dozen times.. You'll at least get a first date.

If I sent you a message, it was because I think we're compatible or I had some tips on how to enhance your profile. I'm not here for sex, I'm here for a partner.

I think meeting for a cup of coffee or a few drinks is a good way to judge chemistry and spend time getting to know each other without many distractions.. Subsequent dates could be a nice dinner, catching a show(live music preferably), driving or walking and just talking, the great outdoors (hiking, volleyball, mountain biking, boating), the great indoors (ping pong, movies, wine and conversation, or listening to great music).