Who am I looking for? I'm attracted most often to bigger, taller guys (but not always). With age comes wisdom (but not always). Someone who can appreciate my sarcasm, who knows when to be serious, too. Someone who appreciates the need to make a favourable impression on friends/family/strangers, but (just for me) be a freak in the bedroom, too.

It seems I'm mistaken for straight EVERYWHERE I go lately; I suppose that's why I'm here.

I love pop culture; country music (everything from the pop-sounding stuff on the radio to bluegrass and alt-country); reality TV, because it's more fun trying to figure out the "real" reality over the one they're selling us; TV series on DVD, though I've little time to watch any of them. I subscribe to so many magazines (The New Yorker, Billboard, Marketing, among others) that I'm finding lately there isn't enough time to read many of them; one of my oldest friends called me an "information whore" just last week which, I guess, I'm man enough to acknowledge.

I ask more questions than most people and, more often than not, I'm in search of the reasons "why" things happen, "why" people make the decisions they do, etc.

I'm not anticipating that you'll share any of these interests. In fact, I hope your's are different enough to expand my horizons, and vice versa.

I think it would be great to share conversation over a drink somewhere, a low-lit place where we can exchange life histories, lessons learned, personal philosophies, and maybe invent life histories for the wait staff and other patrons. You know, if necessary.