Looking for one who is stable in their life and career and knows what they want out of life situations. I am looking for someone who is outgoing, spontaneous and likes to act like kids every now and then. I need someone who can handle my strong personality and not be offended by my opinions. Some people may think I expect too much, but really...What is too much? I have a double major and work out of my home, raise my two children and enjoy nights out with my friends. I love country and DM Band (that is not Depeche Mode). If I am not at my son's football games then you will find my at the basketball games. I love watching my kids in all their games and stay competitive with them.
I haven't really figured out what I am wanting because I don't know what to expect. I think by putting myself out there, I will be open to more choices...avoiding any liabilities. I just want to enjoy my life right now and not rush into anything serious. Since high school... there were many times than NOT that I was not by myself. I do not want to be tied down right now. I just want to enjoy life and possibly hang out with that person and see where it goes. I am not looking for a "baby daddy or sugar daddy". (ALTHOUGH MONEY DOES HELP). Just looking for that someone that knows how to have a good time and can make me laugh. I am a very outgoing person and picky at the same time. If I quit dating the men that are nearly 7 feet tall and start going for the George Costanza type then I may not be on here. Tall guys have gotten me in trouble every time. I am not as shallow as you may think. Sure attraction is important, but there are ALOT more things that have to follow and to find that right mixture for a relationship to develop at the right pace I find comfortable "will not be easy". I am sort of complicated, I guess. It probably sounds like I am asking for alot, but I don't want someone to impress me. I just want someone who is NORMAL and in the end make each other feel special.
I am not interested in alcoholics (if you drink more than 3x a week), drugs, diseases, guys that are NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE, and cannot manage their money by themselves.
I also take pride in my man wearing good smelling cologne. That does not mean Brute/Old Spice/English Leather. I DO NOT WANT TO DATE MY GRANDPA!

Since I love surprises, I would rather the guy pick. If you having cooking skills that is a plus...even if that is on the grill!!!!! I would not want to hang out "at your place" or "cuddle under the stars". If you're looking for that kind of affection on your first date...then maybe you should be on CRAIGSLIST. I am as simple as they come with a lot of fun on the side.

SERIOUSNESS ASIDE
Little Zachary was doing quite badly in math. His parents had tried everything. tutors, mentors, flash cards, Special learning Centers. In short, everything they could think of to help his math.

Finally, in a last ditch effort, they took Zachary down and enrolled him in the local Catholic school. After the first day, little Zachary came home with a very serious look on his face. He didn't even kiss his mother Hello. Instead, he went straight to his room and started studying. Books and papers were spread out all over the room and little Zachary was hard at work.

His mother was amazed. She called him down to dinner. To her shock, the minute he was done, he marched back to his room without a word, and in no time, he was back hitting the books as hard as before. This went on for some time, day after day, while the mother tried to understand what made all the difference.

Finally, little Zachary brought home his report card. He quietly laid it on the table, went up to his room and hit the books. With great trepidation, his Mom looked at it and to her great surprise Little Zachary got an 'A' in math. She could no longer hold her curiosity.

She went to his room and said, 'Son, what was it? Was it the nuns?' Little Zachary looked at her and shook his head, no. 'Well, then,' she replied, 'Was it the books, the discipline, the structure, the uniforms?' Little Zachary looked at her and said, 'On the first day of school when I saw that guy nailed to the plus sign, I knew they weren't fooling around.'