OK girls, let's see if you are serious when you say you want honesty.

First though, what is Plentyoffish's story with the random car question? Was this website started by a 16 year old?

I do have flaws and am not perfect. I am an intelligent person and am sometimes arrogant about it and other times self conscious. I know, it is odd. I like to get out and do physical things as well as just enjoy a beautiful place like museums or see a movie. I believe all people should respect each other as well as the world we live in. I grew up in the middle of a war zone called San Bernardino, haha. I have a dysfunctional family of origin but have learned to work with it. I have done self work and huge personal growth in the last five years and feel I have come a long way but I will continue to grow both emotionally and spiritually as the journey of life continues. I enjoy art, nature and sciences. At times I will ponder theories within Quantum Physics, like M-Theory for fun. I believe that there is something bigger than me out there which I choose to call the Energy, which I believe binds us all together. I am not on this site to hook up and not into games so if you are not looking for something that is lasting please move on.

About You:
You are a warm and affectionate person, once a deeper connection is made. You are not looking for a sugar daddy but to make a partnership with another human being. You are intelligent and have a quick sense of humor. You know who you are and what you want in life. You have some sense of spirituality.

Namaste

I don't think it matters what we do on a first date, and I am a big fan of simplicity, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.