I am a pretty laid back, easy going, go with the flow kind of person..I dont like to lead the way but I dont like to follow either. I have a good sense of humor and can be a smart a@@ but I know when to be mature and tone it down.

I am looking for a long term relationship on here!

I like to watch movies at home. Go out with friends on occasion. Love to eat out. Addicted to coffee, my computer and tech in general. I also spend a lot of time with my kids who stay with me part time.

Ive done and seen a lot in 37 years, I have a good steady job and Im pretty comfortable with where I am right now. Career wise, Im good. Now Im looking for someone to share fun times with. I work to live not the other way around..wow that last part sounds like a beer commercial. If I do have other ambitions, its is to someday buy a lake house in Maine so I guess I do still have some goals.

Im originally from Maine so I enjoy the outdoors and the lake a lot. I am not much of a city person though. Going to St. Louis is ok every now and then. I enjoy going to the games or to the cool bars they have.

Favorite TV shows..Family guy, Fringe, BSG when it was on, How I met your mother, Big Bang theory, Chappell show, and anything related to space/the universe, and Firefly when it was on..thanks again FOX for killing a great show.

Favorite movies..Blade runner, master and commander, matrix, serenity, Fight club, Seven, Old School, 40 Year Old virgin, Knocked up, Super Troopers..and many others. I watch movies with my kids so I love the disney pixar movies like wall-E, Cars, just watched UP which was really good.

I love music too, anything but country or rap/hip hop or heavy metal.

Either a quiet coffee shop to talk or maybe a small bar as long as its quiet to have conversation and get to know one another.