I consider myself personable and able to get along with about anyone. I have a sense of humor and am more on the outgoing side. I'm a non-smoking IT professional who enjoys work but it does not run my life!

I enjoy riding my the bike, going to the gym, the occasional run, fantasy football, NFL (& some college) football, beaches, traveling, theatre, the Blues (but I like most music except rap/hiphop), air shows and cars (driving & shows). I'm not an avid tent camper, a cabin is ok once in a while (my idea of roughing it is a Holiday Inn!). I'm also not the greatest dancer but I try (often depends on the music).

I'm honest, caring, dependable and not looking to rush into anything but I try not to apply rules to relationships because they are all unique. I'm NOT looking for something to do - a good relationship is the goal here.

I don't believe there's such a thing as a "perfect match"; some common interests and mutual attraction are key. A few emails are nice for starters but spending time with someone is the best way to get to know a person (coffee, lunch, a walk/bike ride, happy hour - any "no pressure" zones!). I like to spend time with that special person without crowding them. The last thing I want do is ADD stress as I'm pretty flexible and very low-maintenance. I just like to have fun and SMILE. A smile is one of the best things to see on person and I try my best to make others smile too!

Honesty, respect and a sense of humor are qualities I am interested in. I still open doors, send/bring flowers (no reason other than just because!) and try not to forget the simple things in life (a good rain storm, the warmth of the sun, a fall drive to Ellicottville to see the colors change - well, not so much that anymore!).

I like to balance being active with some quality relaxation time.

Wow, this is exciting stuff - how did it not put you to sleep?

If you're interested, maybe we can talk.

I prefer it low key & no pressure. A casual lunch and/or meeting for drinks which allows for actual conversaction (I've never been called shy but I'm a good listener also). People are so much better in person! Some place by the water or outdoors would be by choice but I'm open to suggestions!