43 yr old man live with long time mate, we have a 20 yr old son together. i am looking for an (preferably)attractive, understanding woman to help me with a now non-existant sex life due to my spouses failing health...i dont go to bars and dont want to pick up a "bar chick" so i am trying this....she has told me to do it but i dont want to wave it in her face so i still would appreciate discretion i am 6ft 225 lbs with green eyes and long blondish hair a mustache and gotee i play music in my (very little) spare time and like the outdoors ( fishing / walking in the park)watching comedy central and adult swim (cartoons...lol)and cars and i love animals (doggies and cats lizards...whatever just all animals). i consider myself christian but i dont go to church (i know)right now i am concentrating on my school work as i am trying to get my RN to begin a second carreer after losing my job last year ( 20 years as a carpenter / finish carpenter) dont drink, dont use drugs, value family life and cant really think of anything else to put here right now...if you need to know anything else just ask ...im not shy

well its getting to be winter so nice walks in the park are about over so i guess we could meet for lunch or a coke or something and talk to see if we think we are compatible....if so we can do whatever....maybe catch a movie now and then but mostly i am pressed for spare time and am looking for a "buddy"...( i know i know)who has the same needs as me and is understanding and discreet... will email photo if requested but i dont want one just floating around on here......and also if you need to know anything else just ask...im not shy