*~* side note *~* i'm making plans to move back to calgary in seven months, so i'm definately open to talkin to some people from there and makin new friends :)

so i'm back already. and no i didn't meet someone and break up with them in that short period of time, if thats what your thinking.

last time i had this big witty sales pitch on here, but as apparently that didn't work, i'm just going to tell it like it is.

i would love to find that once in a life time relationship, but my standards are pretty high and i'm forever a pessimist. so i guess i'm just looking for some friends. unless someone amazing catches my attention.

as for the about me crap. i'm 19, i live on my own have for three years so please don't judge me by my age. i'm not immature like most young people i have a career, i work hard everyday to make a good life for myself. i own a cat her name is Mimi. i live in a two bedroom house in the north central area of edmonton. i'm a Massage therapist and also a student. i love all types of music. enjoy playing soccer, and going running in the early mornings. anything else just ask

So its really starting to get to me, that i keep coming accross these profiles written by all these different guys that actually single out that they want a shorter, thin/athletic girl. Seriously, if you go for the shorter/thin/athletic girls and your still having to employ the use of an internet dating website maybe somethings wrong and you should change your tactic. the taller/average/curvy girls might be able to surprise you. size zero is not a healthy size. and size 13 is not fat. I also understand that the more recent generation of men are being bred shorter and shorter and that a girl who is nearly as tall or taller than you may intimidate you, but dont be a jerk and discriminate just because your a shrimp that feels emasculated by a girl who is a couple of inches taller than you. thats the stupidest excuse not to give someone a chance i have ever heard before. try making some new priorities for the qualities you look for in a women and maybe for once you'll actually find yourself on a date your wanting to continue.

A few of my favourite quotes ~*~ " Life begins at the end of your comfort zone."
~*~ "Over come the notion that you must be regular. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary."
~*~ "life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away."


A List of Things Guys Write in Their Profiles That Mean They Want to Get a Girl in Bed
1. " i'm looking for a girl that likes to have fun"
2. " i need a girl who is open minded"
3. " i like fast cars and fast girls" ( that one is kinda obvious but someone did actually have it written)
4. " i just want someone to cuddle with at night"
5. " i need someone who can keep up the pace"
6. " i'm not into one night stands"
7. " looking to hook up and see where it goes from there"
8. " i'm not really looking to get into a relationship"
9. " i'm looking for something casual"
10. "just got out of a long term, so i'm not looking for anything long term"
11. "wanting a girl that is always having fun"
12. "