I am a dance instructor and I kick some ass in roller Derby. I love going to concerts or and watching B amd cult movies; Donnie Darkko, Female Trouble. Music is my escape; I love The Cure, Slowdive, Cocteau Twins, Dead can Dance, Velvet Underground, Gregory Isaacs, Not a a big fan of hip hop or rap. Reading is great; gotta have the fiction, Favorite book is "Thousand Splendid Suns. I love a woman with a sense of humor and of course, some common sense helps as well. I like taking healthy risks i.e. maybe learn how to surf one day. I love a sweet woman-intellect is important which can be obtained through life experiences not just through education. A woman with goals and that is emotional mature is a turn-on.

Hmm? Well definitely not sex on the first date. If there is chemistry then it is worth the wait. Maybe some wine, good seafood or prime-rib. Get to know one another. Hearing some good house or trance at a gay club is fun too. If you are immature and have drama please do not waste my time or yours. I do feel that physical attraction is important, however, inner beauty is what I am a sucker for. Maybe we will go and listen to a good reggae band or some jazz. I love to listen to people and their stories. Please no men, no experiments I an am not a Guinea Pig. No bi-curious or toys for your boyfriend. I am 41 but I look 25. I love a woman that is physically fit but I appreciate a few extra pounds. So if you are too thin we, will be going to dinner.