Hello! Sweet,
You have taken a short look at my pictures. What have you found from the pictures?
My oriental face may help you to identify immediately where I am from. Yes, my pictures tell you that I am a pleasant, self-confident, financially responsible Chinese engineer.

Now, let me tell you what the pictures did not tell. I am also a frugal spender living in Shanghai, China for 3 years. OK, before 3 years, where was I at?

16 years ago, 1993. I came to the states in F1 student visa. I earned master degree in electrical engineering. After graduation, I stayed and worked as a high tech engineer in Silicon valley, California, for about 12 years. I returned the China in 2004.

I treasure harmonious family value. My ultimate goal in life is to make my family happy, based on the mutual interests and spiritual values. Unfortunately, when I was young, I didn’t understand completely the importance of common recognize on the life goal and values. That’s major reasons my ex spouses and I departed.

Because my personal history plus educated believes in the meaning of life and philosophy formed long time, I was and am not a kind of money-driven, or craze money digger. Instead, I enjoy applying my intelligence and using available resources around efficiently. This way spares me more time spent with my beloved ones at home, cooking delicious Chinese Sichuan dishes for my family members, walking along the path/beach/river on breeze, light raining, and full moon nights, hand-in-hand with my lady. Besides, having a very good sense of humor in routine life would also be an important ingredient in creating a pleasant environment.

I am here looking for a charming smile from a soul mate in America. Why? You may wonder. Let me tell you that after I compared my life experiences got from both China and America, I found that American cultural carries more possibilities for a couple to live together intimately , harmoniously, and peacefully?The core engine that drives and ensures a happy relationship going on and last is the democratic cultural, which makes 2 parties share all necessary responsibilities needed in the ordinary routine life.

They not only help each other, but also encourage the other party in time when unexpected matters or accidents happen. We don’t like to see bad things but we have to face them together. That is the moment to test if a soul mate is true or false.

When we all have gone through joyful and sad experiences on different paths of life and careers, we know the most precious or valuable things in the world are our personalities, that make our life with modern residential and working environment meaningful.

I am not able to describe completely what desirable features should be found from my soul mate. One thing is certain that if the lady who would like to read my message twice, we can ensure the lady is a careful and smart lady, who would not miss good opportunities belong to herself. Therefore, I ignore the common words used popularly to specify what a true soul mate is.