Non stereotypical male looking for non stereotypical woman (and i am not joking)

Love is a dangerous game, winners and losers, pleasure and pain - Mille Jackson

It is not about who you love, it is about who loves you!

Right enough of that!! I think that you will make your choice from my pic, so I don't need to put anything here or do I??
Those who dont need to read or have awakened their telepathic side and already know who or what i am just go to the last paragraph.
For those who need to read a bit, continue below. Rome was not built in one day and neither was this profile.

Compassion, Moderation & Humility - These are the key factors that guide the decisions I make in love and life. It is what makes me and drives me.

I am not Mr Right or Mr Right Now i am just loving, caring, daring, playful, honest, thoughtful, passionate and disciplined. i dont believe in Mr or Miss Right, I just think that we need more tolerance and understanding of each other.

Just to add. You don't need to have sexy pics or an extended description or be in to the trend of the moment. All I ask is that you be yourself. I don't need someone to cook, clean and wash my pants as I do all this for myself. I like to love and to be loved that is what this is about, so if you love yourself then allow me to fall for you.

Look, if you really want to meet a good man then can you judge that by a pic and a few lines of text? If you are looking for a life partner then it might take more than a quick message to find him, it is hard to say anything good on this without sounding arrogant, so I will just say that the first to meet will buy, lol.

I have no intention of trying to change, manipulate or dominate you, it is just like keeping an exotic animal in a cage. I want to see you in the wild being yourself and of course we are not going to agree on everything but that only makes you more interesting. Please dont ask me to watch soaps or Daytime TV or go luxury shopping as these are the 2 things that confuse me.

I don't have any preference in height, shape, eye colour, tone or bra size, looks will fade but friendship and true love are beyond the boundaries of time. Feisty women welcome! My idea of a hot woman is not physical but mental (ha, in more ways than one) so don't send me pics of your assettes, just chat from your heart or mind. I love people who can laugh at themselves as i do it all the time, life is too short to be serious all the time (Save that stuff for your job). Also if you have money then good for you, i cant be bought and i am happy with what I have or dont have. we dont get to this age without having some kind of baggage, i have no problem with that just dont make it too heavy. Kids are not baggage unless you make them into it.

Please, if I send you a mail don't just ignore it or delete it, show that you are worth loving and just send a quick mail even if you're not interested. This will encourage others to send more in the first contact mails. Points are won for making first contact, i am a new man with modern thinking, so be a modern girl and say hi i will always reply. I refuse to give up on the good in people, so i see that first and i refuse to treat everyone bad just cos I've had a few bad experiences.

i was born through love, so i will live and love.

I have just found the bit "Girls that i might think are hot" sorry but i must be from space! look if you make me laugh you're hot, if you cry when i cry you're hot, if you help strangers because you can your smoking hot, that cant be seen in a picture. lets live not just look.

why are you here??? quote "Please don't IM me if we haven't spoken previously on here" it is like watching the couple snogging out on the street and you think "get a hotel room", well i am thinking "give them your email and leave us to find real people" lol

Communication is:
Body Language = 55%
Attitude = 38%
Spoken/Text = 7%

We are just using 7% on here (Is that enough to know someone)
if we talk on the phone then it is 45% (not so bad but still easy to misunderstand)
if you want to get to know me then you need to get 100% of me and that can only be done by meeting up. So lets do it!!

Anyway if you have got this far then contact me if you want a laugh or a bit of banter or generally just enjoy sarcasm. i will reply no matter how shy you are. isn't it why we are all here? Please dont ask for MSN, Facebook or other and i wont, if you want it then lets meet i will give it you over coffee but dont want to be another face in the crowd.

PS.
I will reply to all mails sent to me just give me a bit of time as I tend to fill all my free time with interesting things, so be patient and i will reply ASAP.

PPS.
Dont send me a message if:
1. you watch more than 2 soaps per day.
2. your messages are all in txt speak.
3. you dont use energy saving bulbs in your home.
4. you drive to the corner shop.
5. you refuse to sleep in a tent.
6. your not interested in holidays abroad.
7. you dont own a pair of walking boots.
8. your afraid of motorbikes.
9. you shave all your eyebrows off then draw them back on.

ok 80% is acceptable (unless it is the eyebrow thing).

nb
This is done not to be rude but in the interest of saving time, yours and mine. i really dislike feeling that i have wasted my time or yours.

I am not what is expected!!

We would at first have a freshly ground coffee and an introduction, after we would take in a art exhibition or cultural display or a nature walk, then out for a meal with wine and we can have a more relaxed chat.