Where to start??? I am very outgoing and a generally happy person... People around me always have fun and laugh... I always tell people you will NEVER meet anyone like me... I have been single for awhile now but it is gettin old. I am finally bein a responsible adult and buying my first house... Lets see I have a mad passion for music... I was singin for a metal band and it was alot of fun I do miss it. I bartend and love it... I love all types of music except for hardcore rap that I just tolerate... I just like to have fun and be happy if I can't do that with the person I am with then well that just wont do... I have come to the conclusion most people now adays live for the right now not the future and yes you should live for the moment but also take in mind the future and how your decisions may alter that... (was that maybe too deep)...lol... I guess the perfect man would be mr. right not mr. right now... damn they are sooo... hard to come by...lol... any takers???


UPDATE!!!! I started dating someone tonight... We'll see how it goes but he is everything I look for in a man and more...



UPDATE UPDATE!!! THE BOYFRIEND WAS A DRUNK!!! IM SINGLE AGAIN!!! FROM NOW ON TAKING IT SLOW!!!!!!!!!!! BACK TO FISHING I GO!!! GOOD THING I LOVE TO FISH!!!


I just want to meet a man that isnt afraid to put his hand on the small of my back as we enter a room or tell me that he loves the way I look in the mornin, or just tell me he is happy with everything about me.... Starting to think I'm askin too much or have too high expectations... Maybe I need to do like mad tv and have lowered expectations *hummin the theme song for it* if you dont understand maybe my sense of humor will be way toooooo..... raw for you....

First dates are always soooo.... awkward and the less boring and strenuous I can make it the better... I think chattin over some coffee would be interesting and good way to learn more about this mystery person you are trying to connect with... I am a karaoke junkie so if the guy is up for it then well to the karaoke bar we go... But dont be surprised if you hear "what" alot... lol metal can be so hard on the ears...lol...