Finding myself single came as a total suprise but life is all about change. You have to be able to roll with it. I am spontaneous but I know when its time to pay attention to responsibility. I am self reliant but not afraid to ask for help when I need it. I always get what I want because if I don't get it, I'll change my mind about wanting it. I appreciate a great sense of humor and know how to laugh at myself. Exercise is important to me because it allows me to enjoy good food and drink. I am careful not to overdo either. I'm optimistic, make decisions easily and like to always be planning my next adventure. I enjoy kayaking, snorkeling, hiking, wine touring in upstate NY, airports, bicycling. I've traveled to various islands, Canada, Colorado, etc. Haven't been to Europe. Yet. You'll need a photo attached to your profile if you'd like a response from me. Its not about looks-its about integrity.
Check back-I'll add to this as time and vanity permits. Heh heh!

Coffee or a drink at happy hour is not really a first date-its a meet and greet but crucial to the discovery phase. A first date might be dinner at a very nice restaurant. Someplace with great atmosphere and a quiet and relaxed pace.