I am 43 and have been divorced for about ten months but alone for about 2 and a half years. I have kids and they are great and make me crazy, but only every single day! I'm not really sure how I'd list my hobbies - I enjoy doing things outdoors, but don't seem to have the time to do them much these days. When I do, I like to hike, swim, cave (yes, you read it right) and climb. I guess I still get out to do at least some of these things. I enjoy going to the gym, which I'm trying to get a bit religious about (like daily) but it's not exactly going that way - at least I'm getting there more than I used to! I work in computers but despite this, I seem to get a fair amount of enjoyment from them after hours as well, although I am NOT a gamer - just never could get into it, computers, consoles, or otherwise!

As far as personality goes, I'd say I'm pretty quick witted and I have no fear of social situations - I'm not a social butterfly, but I don't think I have any problems communicating.

I don't really have any perfect image of a first date - I could see doing all sorts of things here; meet for coffee, dinner, a movie, drinks, etc. I guess it really depends on the person I'm going on the date with!