Ok first off my name is not Jem. lol Its Jessica. I love to read, hike, experience new things, meet new people and watch Coen Brothers movies. =) I like to spend time with the people that matter and I don't get nervous often. I am a bit of a thrill seeker and like someone who can keep up with me as well as surprise me with an adventure or two. I don't spend forever in front of a mirror and I don't mind that my handbag doesn't match my shoes. I like animals but am allergic to animals dander. That hasnt stopped me in the past and it won't stop me now. I have my heart set on a German Shepherd. I want a MAN serious about a real relationship. I am not an overly emotional girl so I want someone equally as down to earth but I am not interested in just sex. I am looking for someone to wake up to at night, who will make me laugh and is protective and not a push over. Ha ha I guess I should add I can be demanding. lol Thanks for checking me out. Write me if you think we could make a good match.

I would love a man to arrange an interesting and unusual first date designed especially for myself. No coffee shops or movies on the first date. Don't get me wrong. I like to do both but I don't want any date to fade into another. Then I would like intelligent conversation and natural, easy humor. After that, I don't know. Thats is part of the mystery. lol