I am told I am an attractive, honest, mentally and emotionally stable lady filled with compassion and kindness, who has a caring way and is an independent professional with a great sense of humor. I am a one man woman looking for the same in a friend/lover/partner. I love being a woman and take full advantage of all it offers whether in nylons and heels or my jeans and flannel.

I am looking for a man to enhance an already good life who is open to the possibility of a long term relationship and wants something deeper than a woman to be just a bedroom buddy or arm decoration. This man would enjoy conversation as well as quiet times.

I feel communication is the most important factor to a successful relationship. He would be able to express his ideas and accept the ideas and caring of a kind and gentle woman. I have discovered being alone is less lonely than being with the wrong person. Hopefully I can find the right person someday.

I am not interested in a lot of drama that the perpetual "boys" (bad or otherwise)bring, and certainly no head games. Just a stable, happy man to share good times, as well as the bad. A man who will hang in there and be supportive as a friend or/and partner. I have no desire for perfection in looks, actions, personalities or future, but desire HONESTY, KINDNESS AND RESPECT. I dream of working together toward those common dreams and goals.

Both my children are grown but we are still very close. I miss them being young, but my son lives uin cleveland, TN and my daughter and son in law are local. I enjoy watching them build their adult lives. She has given me a wonderful grandson and I am having a great time with this new page. Although I am not sure I will ever be old enough to be a "Grandma" lol!

I have many facets and have a dual career going on right now. The primary one being Collections with the other from my home in Interior Design/architectural drafting which I also have a degree in. The first caters to my logical, problem solving side and the latter to my creative side, both are very challenging. The two keep me busy and out of trouble until someone comes along.

If I was planning a first date it might start with a meeting at a beautiful park to talk and get to know each other a bit. Of course we would already have a great rapport from chatting online and over the phone. After a time, since everything is flowing so easy and light maybe we would head to nice coffee/tea house or a quiet dinner. Maybe Italian or a great Steak.

Although I enjoy good food I am not a picky eater and his company would be so satisfying the food can not compete with the conversation and laughter. After completing our meal we could take a walk on the water front. Something hilarious always happens on the waterfront. If not we can make sure it does. A nice walk is a great way encourages more conversation and laughter to get to know each other better. Maybe after a stop for ice cream which is my absolute favorite food group and would be an extra bonus. As we eat our ice cream and continue walking we may be fortunate to see a beautiful sunset.

Even though I would hate to end what I hope would be a fabulous date part of me couldn't wait to hurry and get that phone call the next day, or maybe even later that night when he gets home to plan #2, because I would hope to know he is just as excited to move on in this new, hopefull and exciting relationship, whether friend or more! as we drive home our feelings would be mixed with dread over the empending end of this date and excitement for the potential of the next!

THAT'S MY STORY AND I'M STICKING TO IT!!!!!!!!!!!

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