I moved back to northern CA. in January 2007 from the mid-west (Madison, WI area). It's a complicated story as to why I moved back to my roots. Primarily, family, weather, and job related reasons for the move. I got married at 20 and have 2 amazing children that help keep me busy. I adore them!! I've been divorced since March 2006 (separated since Jan 05). I got right into another long term relationship with an amazing girl. Our life goals were not aligned. That ended September 2009. So I am now single and dating again. I have an amazing job that I love! I'm excited about the future and am loving life right now! I enjoy meeting people and love to experience life and all of its curve balls and goof balls. I can be the life of the party, or just help keep it going. I have a positive energy and enthusiasm for life that is contagious. I'm comfortable in just about any situation. I believe very strongly in open communication and truly crave stimulating conversation. I will not waste your time or string you along. If I’m not right for you, that’s ok. You might make a cool friend. You couldn’t possibly have too many cool friends. :) The glass is at least half full. Always!! I don’t care to be around negative or pessimistic people. I have no time for dishonesty, fake people, or people I cannot trust.

Attraction is an amazing thing... I tend to be attracted to fun loving, interesting personalities far more than a certain "look", body type, or hair color. If you are charming, funny, playful, quick witted, intelligent, and can hold my attention and keep up in a conversation, then it’s on! If you are active and fit, that might be even better. I would love to just meet some cool people and see what happens. Most people are interesting and everyone has a story. Maybe we could enjoy a chat over a beverage and a game of pool. I love to have friends over, and have a home that lends itself well to entertaining. To sum it up, I'm up for just about anything with anyone as long as we have a good time.

***Side note*** I know what I am, who I am, and what I want... I am not even slightly confused. :) If you are, that's cool. Please don't project your uncertainty or insecurities on others. I will find the girl I'm looking for. I can’t see her yet, but I can feel her, smell her, hear her, and taste her vividly. She may not be on this site. I'm OK with that. I wish all you wonderful ladies the best of luck! For now, I’m going to enjoy the journey and keep fishing. :)

Isn’t there a sequence to follow? Let’s lob a few emails back and forth. We could chat on the phone for a minute to get a feel for each other. There’s the first meeting. I suggest we grab a quick beverage and have a conversation. Let’s see if we are feeling the connection, compatibility, and chemistry. If it’s all good, now I’ll plan the first date... I might be creative and I love being motivated! Be careful, some would say I’m a keeper…