i like going to sporting events, concerts, being by the water in the summertime. i have a job that i can pretty much make my own schedule and work from home but sometimes i do travel alot so my ideal mate would have to be flexible with that. i tend to date women who are busy but who has structure to their schedule. my scedule is chaotic and there is always a fundraiser, party, client dinnner, etc. to attend so i would want her to participate in those with me. i pretty much achieved and accomplished everything i wanted to and i overcame alot of adversity in life that makes me unique. my taste in music ranges from country, r&b, to some rap. i work out every day. i'm 6'0 235, wear my hair short or shaved, and dress casual. i have a great sense of humor.i am a confessed mommas boy, family is important to me! i make sure to go to dinner with my parents once a week. i have a couple tattoos that are hidden, green eyes that sometimes turn blue, and i think thats about it...oh i have a niece in college that i adore, i have a nephew that is 13 and we are close. i love dogs but ever since i had to put my dog porky down; a chape' i haven't been able to get another. i have never been marrird, no kids, not even close!!! there, now i'm done!

my first date is totally random. usually it is just drinks, starbucks, etc... i like something low key, no pressure, but some place where i can concentrate and focus on the conversation.