Ladies...Can you please change your opening profile line to something different than" Are there any good men/women left out there, I'm looking for an honest, open, etc". Please be more original...PLEASE! We (both female and male are looking for the same thing. I am a decent looking, well educated, employed, financially secure and a emotionally stabe person! Looking for a woman who enjoys outdoor activities...golf, riding motorcycles, yard work, do it yourself projects,etc. Would prefer if the children are grown or live with you part time if under 18. Not looking for marriage at this point. Friendship first and go from there (scary hearing that from a man..huh??). I also love to cook! Know how to clean behind myself, do laundry, mop floors, vacuum and dust, etc! Scared you off yet? I have tried other sites and have not had great success. Please have a pic(s) attached to your profile. If you don't I just delete it. Physical attraction plays a part in dating. Hope you find who you're looking for. Please answer if you are sincere and really want a decent man. I do have the qualifications..give me a chance and I promise I will not disapoint you (I am talking beyond the bedroom and that will come later if we are compatiable). I don't "put out" and don't expect that from you either because we had a "date". Get to know me and we can go from there. Hope you made it through my profile and have a possible interest. Thanks for reading this. I hope to hear back and wish you all the best in your search for your dream date and beyond!

Meet for a drink and appetizers and a nice walk to have an open discussion to see if we have really met the others criteria and if what was said on the profile was true/real or just another ploy for something different than an initial friendship.