I'm the last of a dying breed of female. Really! lol I am BRUTALLY honest and never hold my tongue. I'm Italian & Greek American, Single, No kids.. I have a college degree, and a great job..im not looking for a sugar daddy, a hand out, or anything like that. I pay for dates-hey, it's 2009 ladies get with it!


I have worked hard since i was legally allowed to (age 14)..always had a job and never had anything handed to me ..I am very appreciative of what and who i have in my life..Far from spoiled and materialistic..If you made me a cd and got me a card for my bday i would probably love it lol..i know corny.. If you do not like to talk you're probably not for me... not much into the bar & club scene anymore..laid back, low key is more my style..I often think i should have been born a man because of the way i think..I have an extremely diverse taste in music..I can go from Frank Sinatra, to Wu-tang, to Anita Baker to the Doors all in one playlist..tossed up with some Bob Marley & Led Zepplin and there ya go..I laugh at myself all the time and highly suggest you try the same..I have a great relationship with my family..bunch of crazy Italians & Greeks but i love em..still go to see my Nana every sunday for "dinner" that is at 2pm lol..If you aren't nice to your momma and sister chances are you wont be nice to me..beat it..Are there any good men left? I mean, actually honest, caring, funny, and with no baby momma drama? I understand at my age a lot of men have kids and thats fine--as long as it doesn't come with a maniac baby momma..i have no time for that crap..If you can appreciate a genuinely good hearted, drama & baggage free woman then lets talk..If you don't know a good thing when you have one, keep it movin...I'm very sweet, caring, affectionate, and I tend to never sweat the small stuff, and will give my all into a relationship, if i feel i get it back..if not, see ya later.. I have no time for confused, immature, scared little boys..I need a real man..I don't need someone up my ass everyday lol..i believe in space-it makes the relationship stronger.. I am a sucker for a big boy..skinny men really never did it for me..Please have a thick skin--men that are too sensitive have been offended by my sarcasm sometimes lol..Not much into "metro sexual" men, or thugs..If you can be somewhere in between that would be fabulous! ..ok i think the rambling is over..maybe..


***I have a few things that irritate the living sh!t out of me:***
Guys in really tight pants, or pants so big i can see what you ate for lunch
Cockyness..like every picure is of you flexing your wonderful muscles
Guys that look like cheese doodles with spikey hair lol..stay out the tanning bed please!
Liars..just haaate a liar..i can smell one a mile away so don't think you can get over on me..
Serious people..smile once in a while it won't kill you..
Weirdos, stalkers, and creeps need not apply..Hit the road

I don't expect anyone to be perfect but if you message me something like this : "waz up my nane is **** iam 5'10 180lbs brown hair hazel eyes i like sprot and music. very outgoing i like to make people smile amd make kids laugh i wood like to get to u more about u" please do not expect a response..haaaa

First date all depends on the person you are going with. Personally, I like something quiet, intimate..bringing a date to a bar is a recipie for disaster..alcohol + first date = REGRET! ..Dinner, a movie, a walk..all could be amazing if shared with the right person. I love eating so don't expect me to order a salad & pretend to be that girl..not happening..i dont talk with my mouth full so no worries lol