I am looking for someone upbeat and fun that can hold a good conversation, and doesnt mind spending some weekends relaxing instead of running about trying to find more things to do. Living in NJ/NY life is so fast paced, we need to appreciate the quiet time more often. I think everyone needs some time to unwind, and casual things to occupy their time with. I have a reliable job that pays well, several hobbies, im an active musician, and im very easy going and open minded- i hope to meet someone with similar qualities. I think its really a simple gesture to say hello and start a conversation, so im surprised by how many people disregard attempts at starting one. If you posted pictures of yourself wearing almost nothing, your looking for the wrong kind of attention- i wont hate you for it, but i wont take dating you very seriously either. I am definitely just as attracted to a girl with a brain as i am a girl with a hot body- partially naked pictures taken at a bar dont exactly scream "im smart!" If thats what your into, i would like to know you take yourself seriously. If you're into music, art, or poetry, you immediately have a new friend. If you're into art, poetry, music, and being a smart ass, when are we going out? I love coffee, music (any kind, just not country really), sarcasm and irony. I try to see the bright side of things, and if i can make it funny, thats even better. I dont love- loud chewing?

We can do the usual, drinks, coffee, even ice cream. All three are favorites. We could also make it interesting and do something crazy. Im always up for a challenge.