Hmmm. I work a lot, work out a bit, watch tv a lot...err, at least have it on while i am working from home...and playing. I am member of several ego stroking IQ societies.... I sometimes like to show off, though I'll spare you for now. I haven't had a proper hair cut in 8 months and rarely shave. This is mostly due to my 'typecast'... which brings us to: I work in the entertainment field and though I have only been on the market 3 years, I am considered a 'working actor', among other related job titles.... I have also worked as an autism behaviorist for teens, as well as a variety of other positions in the mental health field for about seven years. I have recently begun surviving off of 'industry' related work alone so my 'day job' with my buddies has been put on hold...

I am goofy, sensitive, overly honest, engaging, charismatic, passionate, stubborn, driven, pompous, creative....blah blah blah... I have had an interesting life...plenty of 'intense' and dynamic stories that I always ultimately reveal..Among other things, I was a wild teenager. Nothing to worry too much about...nobody who knows me feels that my histories should be considered a 'red flag' --no nasty crimes, or nasty drug use, or anything like that... just a general risk taking personality that enjoys taking life to the extreme.....
My career has become my identity recently and I don't tend to go out much... so most of my social life is reliant on the friends I made when I first moved out here and the ladies I meet on set.... kinda cliche really....

please don't be offended if you see me 'viewing' your profile or not responding.... I have not yet contacted anyone on this site and am not sure if I even will... As confident as I am, and I am, I have never been the first to pursue...I am used to being chased... though once the chase is on, my shyness completely disappears and I am not at all difficult or coy when I want it as well..

As far as my current situation is concerned: A long time on/off relationship now lives in DC and is moving to Pakistan soon (she is a diplomat) This has caused me to desire for a little bit more than my other current options..., and as for the local flavor: I have fun with a few and really like and respect them or I wouldn't continue keeping these possibilities afloat, but have yet to 'fall'... and I love emotional/mental/physical intimacy too much to settle for anything less than someone who stimulates me completely.... Do note: I do not, nor have I ever (barring a few months when I was 18), been sexually active with more than one person at a time... I believe it to be a matter of respect and safety. So, even though I admit to 'seeing' a few people already.... I am quite sexually conservative and am looking for flirty cuddle buddies or monogamous relationships, ...not really much for anything in between..... mattlaskydotnowcastingdotcom is my actor site...

On a first date I would probably go to one of my 'go to' restaurants and talk about myself too much... ::wince:: I am working on this though...