Hi! I am a intelligent, caring, loving man looking for a woman who knows what she
wants that I can experience all the great things life has to offer. I strongly believe that I deserve the best. I am an Iowa boy who grew up with two brothers and a sister and a very close family. I credit everything I have now to my upbringing and hard work. I thrive everyday to improve myself mentally, emotionally and physically.


I have a job right now working with the unemployed population. It is not my ideal situation but I am fortunate to have what I have and this job has made me appreciate it even more. I am satisfied, but am never satisfied. I have many goals in life and with my ultimate career choice and will not give up until I get what I want.
I'm not shallow, but physical attraction is a must for me. If you don't look like your pictures then I'm sorry, but I don't want to start a relationship from lies.

I don't lie, cheat or steal. I've been there and done that. I've grown up since then and finally know what I want out of life. I graduated with an Architecture degree a few years ago and am in the process of jumpstarting my career, doing everything I can until this economy turns around. Right now I am just enjoying life and trying to live everyday like it is my last.

I guess the typical thing it seems like is to list some musts..so here we go:

Know how to treat a man
Caring, loving, affectionate, easy going, no drama, maturity, honest, nice,
optimistic, strong
You must be mentally, physically and emotionally ready for a relationship
Sports lover is a plus, but not required
You must have goals in life. You don't have to have a career right now,
but have one in mind and in the process of fulfilling your dreams
must workout, eat healthy and take care of your body..dont need you dying on me :)
Educated and intelligent and willing to push me physically and mentally as I will you
Must have a fairly high sex drive
thicker girls, but fit with a nice booty is definitely a plus..haha
Must want a family and understand what it takes to have a family
Must be willing to compromise in a relationship and be open-minded.
Tattoos and piercings are hot..but not overboard..

This is all I can think of now. I'm sure I'll add to it later. I don't need a
relationship, but I have a lot of love to give and it would be a waste if I didn't get to share it :)

One more thing. A lot of girls say that they don't want games and keep getting hurt. In my experience, girls get bored and would rather have a lot of excitement in
a relationship and give up their feelings. There are guys out there like myself that know how to treat a woman. If you really are tired of games and don't want to get hurt..give it a chance..and one other thing..I feel like it is a waste of time to try and get to know someone through email and/or text only. So if you are never going to want to meet me or 'talk' to me and actually make an effort, don't email me. I don't like to have conversations through text..if I did, I would just continue to email you and never ask for your number. So if you give me your number, don't tell me to text you. I think 'talking' is more personable....
hope to hear from you soon

I'm really kind of a creative guy. I have some things in mind that you normally wouldn't think you would do on a first date, if you are open minded and willing :)
..and no its not that..get your mind out of the gutter girls, haha..