I'm 41, divorced, and I have a son, Kyle, who is 13, and lives with his mother. I work as a Computer Technician for the government. I am a musician, first and foremost. I play drums and sing in the band "Smylin' Jack". I enjoy numerous personal interests, including music, movies (I am a huge movie fan), motorcycles, road trips and traveling, and I love to cook! My son, Kyle, is my pride and joy! He is the one person in my life who most makes life worth living, and I can't say enough good things about my son. He will change the world for the better one day, of that I am certain. I'm just looking to have some fun, find someone new and interesting to be with, and maybe make a new friend or two along the way...

As far as music goes, I love to listen and play pretty much anything, except for rap. Not judging, just not into it. Some beats I really like, and there are a few songs that I do enjoy, but most that I've heard just isn't my cup of tea.

First dates are best left to spontaneity. Whatever catches the mood or fancy at the moment is usually what is going to be the most fun. That's not to say that we can't make plans to do something or go somewhere, but it's fun to just see what happens!