I'm into sports, playing pool, having a few drinks, blah blah blah. Honestly I really enjoy being out with my friends. It doesn't really matter what we end up doing.

I like all types of music with the exception of country, and even that doesn't bother me a lot. I like older hip hop and R&B, but some new tracks can still be considered good music. Adult alternative, the good 80s music (the good 80s was real good, the bad 80s was BAAAAAD), classic rock and roll, slow jams. I know, I'm all over the place....

I'm re-evaluating my goals right now. They were always so time-based and numbers-based and as I get older I realize that doesn't matter so much. Find what makes you happy, then work within that. Then continue to expand upon it. That, and ****ing party a lot.

One thing I've learned in life - less money and less stress is much better then more money and more stress. It's NOT worth it. I learned the hard way.

BTW, Republicans need not apply.

That really depends on what is available that night and who I'm taking out. Let's just say I'm not a "dinner and movie" type of first-date guy. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I actually love going to the movies.

People make such a big deal about conversing and getting to know someone on the first date. What about just being comfortable? Isn't finding out how the quiet time is with someone just as important as the talking part? Ever been on a first date where the silence was NOT awkward? That says something. Or how about... ever been on a date where you made sure to plan activities where you had ample time to talk only to find the other person didn't have much to say? Sometimes people are shy before they get to know you andopen up. They might have a better time on a first date with more activity doing and less talking. First dates should be about seeing if you're comfortable with someone, whatever that entails. And anyways if all goes really well, you'd probably have many chances on more dates after that to get to know all about them. There's way too much to learn about someone on a few dates, much less the first one only.