This is the part that everyone hates including me.I think we are all the same for the most part we are all looking for that someone that fills whatever void is in our lives,the hole in our heart, the one true person that will complete us.So we go to the bars or we end up on this site. I believe as a whole the human race is never satisfied we always want something better. We think we have found it and then realize what we had before is really what we wanted in the first place.The way you would breath deep when she whispered your name in your ear,the smile on your face when you thought of her,the way she smelled,the way you wanted to know everything about her and it still wasn't enough.I am just coming out of a relationship and am not really sure what it is I am looking for right now.Please don't let that scare you off I don't feel I am damaged goods. I do know if I get involved with any of you on this site you will have to accept that he and I are still friends and I am passionate about my family and friends. So to ask me to give up a friend would be unspeakable and I would do the same for you.I am 45,a single mom my boys are 24 and 17 not babies anymore so I have a life but understand the few that have children and what your time with them means to you.I am independent, outspoken and opinionated I say whats on my mind. You will never ever wonder where you stand with me because I will tell you.I believe in total honesty and trust a hard lesson that I recently learned.I think before two people start to date you should always lay down some ground rules and boundries, mistake that was just made we didn't. I am easy to talk to, I have a healthy sense of humor but to warn you its rude and crude at times.I am as comfortable in a dress as I am in a pair of jeans and a tee shirt. I'm not afraid to get dirty so if you like to 4-wheel or go mudding thats cool.I am a very complexed person, there are many layers to my personality it is up to you if you want to take the time to peel them away to reach the prise in the middle I am losing faith in this whole dating thing fast and furiously so if anyone has something to add feel free.Have a great whatever and support the buddy system stay warm Thanks

QT yes qwick trip. Coffee and if we like each other we can go from there if not no hard feelings.Or a museum, coffee, something quiet to get to know each other