I'm not a good "Dater": whatever that is. I would like to find someone that is openminded, Honest and has a good sense of humor. Dont really want to tell someone my life story, nor do I want to hear theirs: not on the first date, anyway. I believe that what we have all been through, has made us who we are today...If we like eachother how we are now, then great! That's where honesty plays a big role. I am very musically & artistically oriented. Claim to be a Southern California girl with Southern values, that I achieved thanks to my Southern Grandmother; whom I strive to make proud. I have a brilliant son, who has always been the easiest part of my life, and don't have the baggage of a psycho-ex to go along with it. BONUS! Im one of the guys, yet girlie. I believe in; Everything in moderation, including moderation. If you're interested, Great, let's talk...If not, no problem and good luck down the next path in your journey.

Let's see...First date. Uhhh, how about a glass of wine/a drink? If we click we can go from there. If it goes to a second date, well that's another story... Wine, Flowers, Dinner, a plane ride... JUST KIDDING!!! Honestly I dont know. Depends on the two of us and what level we connect on. Would be hoping that ypu payed enough attention on the first date to come up with something simple, yet meaningful. How's that? Good, right?!?!