try and feel comfortable and the person iam with it has to be mutual,dont like drugs and drinking is occasionally, depends on the day and time and the ppl iam with,a first date doesnt consist of a loud environment ,how am i suppose to get to know that person when iam yelling in her ear ,not fun .theres got to be a connection or it will turn out to be a friendship and thats fine .hmmm well lets see what happens here should be interesting.