I am an independent, prosperous individual who knows when to allow her partner to take the lead. I am a leader with strong inteperson skills. I am not intimidated and through Jesus Christ have recognized that if i continue to put GOD first in everything I do, he will provide me with favor. I have faith that after a long term relationship of 12 years, i must take the time to let GOD provision me with the right mate. My schedule is extremely tight right now, but having a nice friend would be a welcome. I am fun and one that will bring balance and keep the relationship interesting and contributing, One should not have folks in their lives that are deducting, not financially but emotionally, we should offer positive contributions to each other and be able to see beyond the weaknesses.

Really try to take it easy, a person cannot give all in a date. But if you are perceptive you are able to assess an individual. If you are intuitive enough to understand that everyone has their own space you will be realistic to know that you should not make any assumptions of anyone. I would give the person time to just relax and feel comfortable. I would most definately want to do something that is fun. Doing something totally different and would welcome adventure, i don't know though if i am ready to go bungy jumping or parachooting :). I am a strong proponent of living today as if it were the last day of my life but planning for tomorrow should GOD grant it to me, I am saying this to say that I try to keep bounderies around who i bring into my space, it is very important to me to have responsible people in my close space because lack of responsibility is lack of respect for oneself and one's future. I want to enjoy life, i love to travel and see what GOD has blessed us with. I enjoy in expensive trips and welcome the opportunity to plan exotic trips and love luxury and to be pampered and don't mind pampering either. To be one with someone else is giving and sharing unconditionally, knowing that there is no alterior motive on the other ones part. I love all forms of music from opera to country. But of course as a black hispanic with carribean heritage, i enjoy salsa,reggae, calypso, jazz, country. I am a melting pot, what can i say, my dad is panamanian, my mom is venezuelan, my grandmother was columbian, my grandfather was indian, as a result a melting pot within. I don't judge others by the color of their skin but the character within. I love to travel, i am unique because, i am my own fingerprint, as a woman, i can do and will try to do just about anything except hard drugs, i am saying that to say that i enjoy a nice drink now and then. I can install a light fixture, reupholster a sofa of any kind, build a wall unit or a bed and just, i am a great cook, i am a designer, interior decorator, landscaper, deck builder, technology developer from an application perspective, financial coach, planner, enterprenuer while also gainfully employed at one of the major financial institution. I am a single parent of a 19 year old son and open to dating and really getting to know one of the opposite sex with a ten year range of my sage, thus would welcome a relationship with a healthy vibrant athletic 44 to 64 year old male with similar goals and interests.