I am into everything imaginable. From snowboarding, to sailing, hiking, computer games and virtuallity, invention, paintball. From mudding trucks to street showing cars, motorcycles, jet ski's. From fine dining, to picnicing under a starlit sky. Watching movies while cuddling on the couch, to seeking out a drive in theatre. Studying languages and histories, to making my own. Erotic art, Dark clothes, Chains and angels wings. Industrial piercings, tattoos, chrome. Futuristic or victorian steampunk, but not this normal boring stuff. I am very involved in life, looking for someone who can enjoy that in a man.

I am a achievement driven man. My goals are far fetched but I live for each step, each gain, as i attempt to make my way toward what seems unacheivable. I want to go back to college for 4 degrees at least before retirement age. I am nearly 30 and dream of not making my way through life completely on my own. I am 100% independent but only because i have been forced to be most of my life. I would like someone to care about me as much as i care about them for a change.

I am a musician, writer, scientist, number cruncher, engineer, outdoorsman, sportman, showman, entertainer, businessman, goth, cyberpunker, industrial techhead, toughguy, sweetheart, the list goes on and on. I hate labels, they are always lacking with me. haha. Here's one. REAL.

I'm looking for someone who isn't afraid to stand out, to bend a few rules or jump a few fences to enjoy the fruits of life. Someone who takes pride in being different. Even when the world hates her for it. Someone who has hobbies and interests aside from reading and sleeping and watching tv. Someone who wants a man who is interesting if not always successful. I have busted my butt to be who i am, yet in 30 years i have been completely unsuccessful in finding a single partner who likes my complexity of interests. I'm not looking for someone who is into everything i do. she doesn't even need to like half of it. She just needs to actually like me and not want me to change who i am and give up what i like.

Hmm. Music. My music of choice is tricky. Most have never heard of it. Industrial, Goth, darkwave, EBM, but i do have my favorite artists in every genre. from country to hip-hop to heavy metal, even opera. :)

Very first date.. I'm new in the south. I don't know many places. It would have to be something simple. Maybe a lunch at a local diner, followed by a trip to the park or the mall, someplace public where she would not feel at all uncomfortable with the first meeting. I'd offer ice cream, i love ice cream. We could share in pleasant conversation and get to know one another before deciding what comes next. Perhaps a movie? perhaps a slap? :P Honestly I can't begin to imagine where it would go. Nothing in life happens on a pre planned agenda. No matter how perfect you are at scheduling. I would only but dream that the day would end, holding her nuzzled against the crook of my neck, watching the sun fade over the horizon.