Hello. I'm new to this site. I'm a 25 year old PROUD african american male. No frills. What you see is what you get. Keeping it real is what I am about. I wear fitted hats. Sometimes to the side. But I am NOT "thuggish" or "gangsta". Don't judge a book by its cover. Consider myself a calm, cool, collective, emotional, trustworthy, silly at times (I love to make people laugh) charming, sensitive, good hearted, easy going, but hot tempered.(only when pushed really far) I'm looking for a woman between the ages 21-30 with a good head on her shoulders to take things slow with. You know, talk first to get to know each other better..see if we relate on likes/dislikes, outlooks on life and what we both need and want, go out on a few dates and spend some time together and see if we can move forward from there. :-) I'm looking for a sensitive, compassionate, giving, funny, romantic, mature woman that loves cuddles and soft warm kisses on the neck and lips. I'm looking for a woman that can make me feel good inside and out and can hold a good deep conversation with me and will respect my needs and a woman that will treat me with respect. Trust is BIG as well. I don't go for women that lie, women who are stuck up, cheat, play mind games, are selfish and spoiled, whiners, say one thing and mean something totally different, want to argue all the time, have hidden agendas, can't keep it real, always think they are right, drinks and parties all the time. I'm not at all into wild party girls, or girls who abuse drugs and alcohol that get out of control and think thats the way of life. A drink once in a while is ok. I'm looking for a woman that is down to earth. I do still live with my mom and sister, but I plan on getting my own place soon. Times are a little rough right now, so please understand. And if you find that to be a problem or if that makes me a "loser"? Then so be it. But I am far from a loser. I have goals in life and I plan on going back to school for Virology. Everything I have? I worked hard to get. I don't sit back and expect things to be handed to me, when I want something I get it by working hard. I love my family and friends. In my spare time I like to hang out with my friends and shoot pool or go bowling. I also like to read, draw, listen to music, play basketball, and keep myself in shape. I prefer a woman who is low maintanance. Looks are not EVERYTHING to me, but I'd like a woman who does keep herself in fair shape and takes care of herself and dresses respectfully. She doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous though. I don't think I ask for too much from a woman and my search for the right one may take a long time. But I know that in the end? It will all be worth it. I'm not a hard man to please and a little bit goes a long way with me. Well thats all I have for now, if you would like to know more? Please feel free to ask. Thanks for taking time out to read a little about me. :-) Hope to hear from you soon.

I'm down for whatever. I'm not picky at all. I enjoy nice quiet evenings inside watching a dvd or 2, or going out to eat. Or even something as simple as a random hide and seek game in a Wal Mart! :-p Having a good time is all that matters.